How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 17.06.2025 00:47
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
How do flat Earthers explain the existence of other spherical planets?
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Why do narcissists keep calling on the phone after years of separation?
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Why is money considered to be the root of all evil?
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
That's it for today.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
I'm British and I hate my glasses. Are prescription glasses better in New York City?
Hangs out with loser friends.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Why is Tiananmen Square censored?
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Do you think this Labour Party is qualified to run our country?
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Procrastinates a lot.
Why did my crush like me for only two days in a row?
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Are Indian youths conservative or liberal?
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
What I need from you?
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Making more friends is a goal.
Why are American women so ugly nowadays?
Do not set goals—set systems.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Does not procrastinate.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Ask yourself:
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.